Admiration is not love nor your idealistic thoughts about it.
Finding real love is not by seeking it.
Your mind will not show you the right way.
Love is not by counting how many slow motions you had
or how many day dreams you have been encountering.
It happens in the most unpredictable situations, time and unexpected person.
It happens fast forward and you will be wondering afterwards how it happened.
You will eventually fall without even knowing.
Everything happens for a reason.
I believe, that when you found love, God made it possible to happen
and I know, there are reasons behind it.
As if it was destined to happen and you will realize that afterwards.
Finding love is finding someone who could complete you.
It is not about finding someone you could get along all the way
or having a lot of similarities that you could probably get the the best memories with those.
Love is about finding someone that will teach you how to fight your weaknesses
and help her/him using your strengths.
Later on, you will clearly see how special that someone is
and how important you are.
You will not feel your self worth until now.
The person you know before is very different from the person you know now.
Your thoughts will change as months pass by, as years pass by.
The person standing beside you is way too different from before.
You would know more about her/his feelings, perceptions and insights.
You would know more about her/his strengths and weaknesses.
You would know how pathetic s/he is and how great s/he was.
You would hate her/him and love her/him for that.
Love is not about perfection.
Love is about accepting each others’ weaknesses
and helping each other to stand up from the storms.
Love is finding someone who would complete you as a whole.
Romance is not love
and love is not just about romance.
Love is seeing yourself sacrificing your own happiness.
Love is finding yourself suffering while saving the other.
Loving is actually learning how to be selfless.
You are not loving if you could hold back your pride and stand firm
Love breaks every walls you tried to build in fights and arguments.
Love is learning how to understand and forgive.
Love can lead you to a road full of wonderful good deeds.
that’s why God wants us to stop hatred and spread love instead.
In finding love, some people will not agree.
That’s normal and don’t worry.
There is no perfect couple anyway.
You will encounter people that will counter your relationship.
People always do that because that’s the only thing they know.
They know how to interfere and care more about other people than themselves.
In this world with full of hatred, stand firm and stay strong.
Remember, you are not alone.
And from that pure heart, God notices it.
Hatred breeds more war and love is the only cure for that.
Make love as your weapon and everything will be at the right place.